I am a Tim Gunn fanatic! I am addicted to his approach, his words, and his stories. "Gunn's Golden Rules: Life's little lessons for making it Work" has been one of my top 3 reads. From his demeanor and dress, I would propose Mr. Gunn to be a bit of a "diva" (my word of the hour for anyone that is extremely high maintenance). His exquisite direction in fashion and his role on project runway paints a totally different picture than what I think is really there. So reading his book was very refreshing and at the same time personally challenging.
When I look around the outside world from my little bubble I've created for myself, I don't see much I am fond of when other human beings are interacting together. Definitions of the important "stuff" have certainly be rearranged: commitment, charity, community, communication. The 4 C's that hinge on every activity of our daily lives'. (These I will address in a future blog, but for now, I must stick to topic or else this could get REALLY long!) With his book, Tim Gunn brings to life the 4 C's and also a handful of quotes that keep me in check. Take the High Road and Make it Work are by far the most impactful things I've heard in a long time.
Take the High Road: This one is a tough one because as I get older, the less resilient to peoples' bullcrap I become. When you are a higher level thinker in a mass produced/consumed world and losing control of your tongue, it's never a good combination. I'm here to create peace, not war. I am here to give you the same respect I believe I deserve. I lend you an egg, please return the favor with a cup of sugar. More times then not, you know how it goes---There is a certain point where you almost feel as though you have a sign posted to your forehead "Please wipe feet here". The High Road approach means you will follow through with dignity and strength, (and in my opinion, find new people to associate with).
Make it Work is wonderful because it reminds me that I am rarely ever going to be dished a "perfect scenario". That's only for Hollywood and exactly why motion picture film has been so successful in the romantic comedy scenario. They should come with a surgeon generals warning of some sort: What you are about to view is pure manipulation of your emotions and ideals. Remember, it's the movies. Only here will certain things exist. :) Anyway, Make it work to Tim Gunn is looking at your situation whether you're designing a dress or at a dinner party that is for carnivores and you're a vegetarian; to take the High Road and Make it work. You may have to choke down a piece of meat in order to remain in good graces with your host (he is BIG on respecting your host/hostess). I think of all the times I have wanted to lose weight or do this or that, but then have a 100 excuses to follow of why I can't, instead of taking Life as We Know It and making things happen! (Making it work).
We will never be in the "perfect" financial situation to --take a vacation, save, have kids, etc. But those that want, do. somehow. it happens.
Life is all what we make it. What's cooking in your kitchen today? :) Make it work, clothed in strength and dignity..
Namaste,
Kristen
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